Post by nwamaikpe on May 20, 2024 2:52:38 GMT
Marriage is one of God's core strategies to empower us to become all He has destined us to be with great ease. In other words, you are primarily aiming to marry a lady not for sex or childbearing or companionship's sake, but the most important thing is that she will play a unique and pivotal role in helping you fulfill destiny (becoming all God has destined you to be) with great ease.
Remember, in Genesis, when God was done shaping a destiny for Adam in the garden of Eden, He planned a wife for him too:
And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18.
God was also saying, "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone".
Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. [10] For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)
So, when God said, "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone", He brought about an instant solution: "I will make a helper (the job of a helper is to make things easier for you)."
God was saying, "The woman I will give him will help him run the race of destiny to make it easier for him."
All that mattered wasn't about her body or about her curves (or about any physical thing we prioritize today). It was all about the fact that the woman, Eve, has a divine configuration to help Adam fulfill destiny with ease.
Now, it should be noted that if God trusts a man with a correct woman who will help him in his journey to destiny, then that man too must have the capacity to help the woman fulfill destiny.
To attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too. In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct lady is a lady God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your wife.
For a woman to have such a configuration, she must be:
1. Genuinely saved
2. Submitted to the Holy Spirit
3. Have started running with destiny
In my book "Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal", I drew a full portrait of who a correct lady is in full details, and one of the things you will discover is that it has nothing to do with physical features (curves, shapes, height, etc).
Remember, don't jump at just any woman when it comes to choosing a life partner, but make sure the lady you will go for has what it takes to be an adequate helper for your destiny actualization.
But then, to attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too (have the right configurations to help her fulfill destiny also).
Remember, in Genesis, when God was done shaping a destiny for Adam in the garden of Eden, He planned a wife for him too:
And the Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone; I will make him a helper comparable to him.” Genesis 2:18.
God was also saying, "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone".
Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. [10] For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10)
So, when God said, "It is not good that man should try running his race of destiny alone", He brought about an instant solution: "I will make a helper (the job of a helper is to make things easier for you)."
God was saying, "The woman I will give him will help him run the race of destiny to make it easier for him."
All that mattered wasn't about her body or about her curves (or about any physical thing we prioritize today). It was all about the fact that the woman, Eve, has a divine configuration to help Adam fulfill destiny with ease.
Now, it should be noted that if God trusts a man with a correct woman who will help him in his journey to destiny, then that man too must have the capacity to help the woman fulfill destiny.
To attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too. In the context of our conversations here (about marriage), a correct lady is a lady God has configured to help you fulfill your destiny as your wife.
For a woman to have such a configuration, she must be:
1. Genuinely saved
2. Submitted to the Holy Spirit
3. Have started running with destiny
In my book "Getting A Correct Lady To Say Yes To Your Marriage Proposal", I drew a full portrait of who a correct lady is in full details, and one of the things you will discover is that it has nothing to do with physical features (curves, shapes, height, etc).
Remember, don't jump at just any woman when it comes to choosing a life partner, but make sure the lady you will go for has what it takes to be an adequate helper for your destiny actualization.
But then, to attract a correct woman, you must be a correct man too (have the right configurations to help her fulfill destiny also).
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